I will be honest, I am really struggling mentally being here. I hate being here, but as I mentioned before, my father is the only person in the world ( not my mother or siblings) I would ever come back and take care of. I will be back in Viet Nam for sure, my life is there, have an apartment there, that is my life, he is doing lots of tests and trying to get to the bottom of what is happening. We moved him into a top notch assisted living facility in Santa Barbara, there are some famous peoples family there, I am meeting everyone that is there and getting to know them. The staff told me that it is unreal that the amount of family that move their loved one in and then just take off and not be there, I am there and sleeping there etc , need to make sure everything is going smooth, need to get my fathers health "hopefully" ok where he can live out the rest of his life ( not sure yet ) then return to Vietnam and just make more trips out here , i have siblings so we will all take part and be around more for him, but I am the one here doing all the leg work etc, I have never in my life been under so much stress, I have never had to deal with someone ill before in my life, this is the first and the last because I would not do this for anyone but my dad.