We are prone to "tampo", QL. Do you know that term?Watch your back, fly!
Seriously though, I'm starting to get some vibes put out by you and some YouTubers about how temperamental Filipinas can be (sorry Genie). Most are so wonderful and happy and friendly. It's when you get to know them that you are exposed to their moods but I still love them!
A YouTuber I follow recently moved from the Philippines to Thailand. He said when you break up with a Thai all she says is that she wishes bad karma on you and leaves it at that. He then says when you break up with a Filipina she wants to round up all her relatives to kill you.
Just joking but there is some truth to it.
"Tampo means you're not angry or mad and you're not cool with it either. It's like a lukewarm way of dealing with a situation." --> Most of the Filipinas are like this.. but of course, there's good, and there's bad Filipinas, that's for sure..