Does Rudy Deserve a Second Chance? BMR members weigh in…

[carolinakid]

bottom line for someone that has been on forums for 20 yrs this is not right for any forum.and about reading the thread, it not about opening the threads, he starts so many and reply like every 30 sec to keep all at the top of the page, that not a good look for the forum here

 

[Enikk]

yep and now he trying the same thing at another site, they told him to get lost

He has been trying to set that up for some time. Same bullshit and continues talking shit about this forum and those that run this place. Rudy is all talk and wants someone else to do all the hard work for him. He had a platform here he could of used as his resume.

The guys are too smart and experienced to put up with his bullshit next door. We are just too forgiving here. Rudy can't manipulate them and has burned a few in the past. Rudy acts like he knows every poster but that just isn't the case. He has burned so many over the years for shits and giggles and it comes back to haunt him. We are all fvcked up one way or another and all have issues but that doesn't mean we should have to deal with an acutely ill one daily. I am done with him and will never reach out to him again. I don't need that in my life and happy I don't have to open pms being verbally assaulted by a drunk lunatic.


All of you that want Rudy back, put yourself in Genie's position. Genie does so much for us. You see how he verbally assaulted her publicly. You think she deserved to deal with that and much worse in PMs? Fvck Rudy. He can show up at the 1st bash and apologize in person to us.

 

[Bond Guy]

It seems he wants it to be WWE all the time with him at center stage. He likes everything to be a non-stop brawl which is what he says the forum should be. He is pretty clear about that.

 

[Tanko]

The crap that Genie put up with was well beyond what anyone else would have accepted. And the PMs she received from him that we didn't see could have been worse than was posted in the forum so, no doubt Rudy deserved the ban.

Rudy has issues. We know, he knows and every other sports forum knows it. He is not going to change without serious help.

 

[carolinakid]

that why no forums want him today, his act is old and like the other forums say, he like the groundhog movie, same thing every time he post, i said this before it only so many times you can cry wolf and people are sick of what he talking about now

 

[Bond Guy]

I don't think he needs help. He is just an asshole and likes being an asshole. You can't fix asshole.

 

[Tanko]

I don't think he needs help. He is just an asshole and likes being an asshole. You can't fix asshole.

No, but you can kick the "s#it" out of it.
Pun intended.

 

[Bond Guy]

I will give him credit. He does not really hold a grudge. He just wants constant attention and credit all the time and he likes to fight.

 

[Tanko]

I will give him credit. He does not really hold a grudge. He just wants constant attention and credit all the time and he likes to fight.

Did you know him on another forum Bond Guy? You seem read him well.
Or have you just seen similar posters elsewhere and he fits the mold?

 

[Bond Guy]

Did you know him on another forum Bond Guy? You seem read him well.
Or have you just seen similar posters elsewhere and he fits the mold?

I have seen him post and read his stuff. It is always exactly the same. You don't have to know him very well.

 

[dustyy]

Seems like pacifying is enabling. Not doing him any favors by putting up with bad behavior. Rules are rules and I wish him well but the definition of insanity applies here. Probably doing him a favor in the long run. He probably could be a valuable asset to the forum but he chooses to go a different route.

People who threaten to divulge private conversations or information as leverage to get what they want have no place in a public forum

 

[Bond Guy]

He probably asks for a ban because he knows he cannot stop posting and he thinks he gives the forum more than it deserves. So he wants forced out because he can't do it on his own.

 

[Seahawkharry]

Did you know him on another forum Bond Guy? You seem read him well.
Or have you just seen similar posters elsewhere and he fits the mold?

Sbr..he did the same thing went out in a Blaze because he didn't get what he wanted .burned all his bridges . Same story here

 

[Tanko]

Sbr..he did the same thing went out in a Blaze because he didn't get what he wanted .burned all his bridges . Same story here

Yep. Many of us were there and saw the flames.

 

[Bond Guy]

I did see the SBR thing. Same deal. He thought he was doing the site a favor and he got banned for it. And then went nuts. More or less the same here. He thought he was bringing in posters (which I don't see) and then was mad because he realized he was thought to be a loser the whole time. So he went crazy again.

 

[carolinakid]

bottom line a person in his 50's acting that crude and rude dont cut it for me here, he is way overdue to have grown up, you dont get very far in life acting that way imo

 

[Bond Guy]

That is his online persona. He likes to mix it up. That is what he is going to do. You can have that on a site like SBR because it is so big, he gets lost in the mix more or less. But when you have a small forum, he is going to take it over.

 

[biggins]

The one thing l worry about is when he drinks alone at least he’s not behind the wheel. We were his drinking buddies so now he might venture out into public and that more than likely won’t end well. Bang your head mental health will drive you mad.

 

[Tanko]

The one thing l worry about is when he drinks alone at least he’s not behind the wheel. We were his drinking buddies so now he might venture out into public and that more than likely won’t end well. Bang your head mental health will drive you mad.

You make a good point.

He's got some "buddies" around the block at another forum... one that won't ban him for anything... I mean anything. It is not a good place.

He'll likely hang out there until he can come back here.

 

[Bond Guy]

His big problem is that he wants back at SBR. His audience is not big enough here or anywhere else. He wants a stage.