i agree with this totally.
also this is a question, this happened to me not long ago, but a really close friend of mine that i hadnt seen in a couple years and hadn't talked to her in a long time cause she would cancel plans. out of nowhere she texts me asking me for 50$..back story, she travels a lot with these groups of girls. but after all this time there was no hi how are you, just "can i borrow $50" out of nowhere. if you were in my shoes, would you have given her the $50.