Amenit's the only way to keep certain peace in your life

Amenit's the only way to keep certain peace in your life
I know a ton of people in my hometown of Santa Barbara and a ton in Vietnam and China and I can honestly tell you I have not one person in my life I could rely on if needed. I have a couple but not sure about them.it's the only way to keep certain peace in your life
sadly as we get older the circle is less and less. I try to keep in touch with friends from the past, but effort works on both ends.Small circle Flyer, small circle.![]()
My circle is me myself and my passport and girlsSmall circle Flyer, small circle.![]()
Yeah I feel you, but I’ve burned too many bridges over the years with my people. Hard to come back from that, but time is a healer because we gradually forget. So always hope for down the road.sadly as we get older the circle is less and less. I try to keep in touch with friends from the past, but effort works on both ends.
i agree with this totally.sadly as we get older the circle is less and less. I try to keep in touch with friends from the past, but effort works on both ends.
0% chance i would give her money. If i talk to someone regularly and i know the reason for the $50, i see the struggle and it makes sense of course i will help outi agree with this totally.
also this is a question, this happened to me not long ago, but a really close friend of mine that i hadnt seen in a couple years and hadn't talked to her in a long time cause she would cancel plans. out of nowhere she texts me asking me for 50$..back story, she travels a lot with these groups of girls. but after all this time there was no hi how are you, just "can i borrow $50" out of nowhere. if you were in my shoes, would you have given her the $50.
Yeah I agree with this strategy, she don’t give a bleep about you Le. Don’t let her finesse you.0% chance i would give her money. If i talk to someone regularly and i know the reason for the $50, i see the struggle and it makes sense of course i will help out
but a friend you don't talk to that travels all the time. Clearly she doesn't need the money if she is traveling all the time. And again no respect to even pretend to do the small talk. hey how are you, hows work, hows life, then sob story about how life is hard and then ask for $50
just hi le, can I have $50...GTFO
0% chance i would give her money. If i talk to someone regularly and i know the reason for the $50, i see the struggle and it makes sense of course i will help out
but a friend you don't talk to that travels all the time. Clearly she doesn't need the money if she is traveling all the time. And again no respect to even pretend to do the small talk. hey how are you, hows work, hows life, then sob story about how life is hard and then ask for $50
just hi le, can I have $50...GTFO
Ok so I’m not an asshole then. Cause that shit honestly pissed me off and i definitely haven’t tried sinceYeah I agree with this strategy, she don’t give a bleep about you Le. Don’t let her finesse you.
You’re not at all an asshole Le. You need to cut her off simple as that.Ok so I’m not an asshole then. Cause that shit honestly pissed me off and i definitely haven’t tried since
Im there for my people i know would be there for me in return
You’re not at all an asshole Le. You need to cut her off simple as that.
yeahh i'm just not going to put any efforts in whatsoeverjust ghost her haha
i just want to know wtf it was for lolfresh job, tons of vacation, yea she doesn't need $50
A lot of us here are not as secure & stable like you coach lol.a lot of emotional wrecks in this thread