How do you handle the woman playing hard to get?

[samsncharge99]

a girl matched with me last wednesday. She gave me a rose on hindge, so she made the 1st move. We were talking until Saturday night and then poof unmatched. like out of no where, no indication, good conversation

hate it

 

[samsncharge99]

not being cocky, but im above average for appearance and i own a home and have a career job. maybe im not 6 feet tall, that must be the issue

some people just die alone. accept the fate JJ

 

[BMR Genie]

a girl matched with me last wednesday. She gave me a rose on hindge, so she made the 1st move. We were talking until Saturday night and then poof unmatched. like out of no where, no indication, good conversation

hate it

This is the tiring part of online, Sam. Investing time in strangers who are not even serious.

 

[edawg]

not being cocky, but im above average for appearance and i own a home and have a career job. maybe im not 6 feet tall, that must be the issue

some people just die alone. accept the fate JJ

We all die alone ashes to ashes dust to dust.

 

[JDS]

i know i need to go to the bars by myself and just try to make conversation....but then you have groups of girls. And what I am supposed to do, go to a group of 3-4-5 and try to start conversation. Someone will take their phone out, start recording, or BF appears out of nowhere. Or the gernande in the group plays defense to box out a conversation from happening

i have dance abilities, but it's not 2008 where you just grind up on someone.

I don't fear rejection, i'm in sales, it's in my blood. Public embarassment I do fear. And then if you are just sitting at the bar by yourself you look like a loser. It's a lose lose lose scneario all around

i fukking hate it. and the words appearing don't do justice. i can't stand the current dating pool. it's so challenging.

especially social media and the false expectation that everyone is supposed to be a gazillionaire. And then if you are girls cheat b/c they are bored or want more out of the guy. it's never enough

end rant

I feel truly grateful for my Kristin after that rant. You’re the male version of a gem, genuinely seeking lasting love, which is hard to find in either men or women in 2025. We share a similar outlook on dating from our perspectives. On the other hand, someone like @MinnesotaFats views it completely different & I can respect his perspective.

He believes most women are after money, so he doesn’t bother chasing something he thinks doesn’t exist. Instead, he cleverly uses his resources to get what he wants from women in a subtle, almost sophisticated way. He ensures they don’t feel degraded, and in return, they appreciate it, allowing everyone to enjoy the arrangement.

 

[DiggityDaggityDo]

First, offer her a cold beverage…..

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Then, maybe show off the guns…..

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If all that fails - throw money around…..

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Wow… some of my best work in this post right here!

 

[JDS]

a girl matched with me last wednesday. She gave me a rose on hindge, so she made the 1st move. We were talking until Saturday night and then poof unmatched. like out of no where, no indication, good conversation

hate it

She had at least a dozen other guys waiting in line that she seriously considered above you & she decided on one of those before you, easy math for her.

 

[samsncharge99]

I feel truly grateful for my Kristin after that rant. You’re the male version of a gem, genuinely seeking lasting love, which is hard to find in either men or women in 2025. We share a similar outlook on dating from our perspectives. On the other hand, someone like @MinnesotaFats views it completely different & I can respect his perspective.

He believes most women are after money, so he doesn’t bother chasing something he thinks doesn’t exist. Instead, he cleverly uses his resources to get what he wants from women in a subtle, almost sophisticated way. He ensures they don’t feel degraded, and in return, they appreciate it, allowing everyone to enjoy the arrangement.

money attracts woman. Good for Minny for having the wealth to use it to his advantage

 

[samsncharge99]

She had at least a dozen other guys waiting in line that she seriously considered above you & she decided on one of those before you, easy math for her.

yup. i see videos from woman online talking about online dating and how they have thousands of likes and messages and guy have NOTHING and they are shocked at the results

how does a woman filter through 1000 of bull shit. finding a needle in a haystack

personally i met my ex-wife from work. it's hard to transition from a car sale to dating. i have done it successfully in the past, but again years of rejection and continuing to try

where else do you meet people?

i go to the track all the time, but again i'm not going to approach a family or group of girls at the picnic table. this isn't a youtube video

 

[BMR Genie]

i know i need to go to the bars by myself and just try to make conversation....but then you have groups of girls. And what I am supposed to do, go to a group of 3-4-5 and try to start conversation. Someone will take their phone out, start recording, or BF appears out of nowhere. Or the gernande in the group plays defense to box out a conversation from happening

i have dance abilities, but it's not 2008 where you just grind up on someone.

I don't fear rejection, i'm in sales, it's in my blood. Public embarassment I do fear. And then if you are just sitting at the bar by yourself you look like a loser. It's a lose lose lose scneario all around

i fukking hate it. and the words appearing don't do justice. i can't stand the current dating pool. it's so challenging.

especially social media and the false expectation that everyone is supposed to be a gazillionaire. And then if you are girls cheat b/c they are bored or want more out of the guy. it's never enough

end rant

Go to the Philippines, and Filipinas will chase you, Sam. Sometimes, you find love on a different continent.

 

[samsncharge99]

Go to the Philippines, and Filipinas will chase you, Sam. Sometimes, you find love on a different continent.

sup @BMR Ivy

 

[JDS]

Go to the Philippines, and Filipinas will chase you, Sam. Sometimes, you find love on a different continent.

Those women are better candidates & way more loyal although yes you will have to take care of them financially I would assume.

 

[BMR Ivy]

sup @BMR Ivy

Haha, maybe I should start packing then

 

[jjgold]

I’ve been reading you gotta treat a woman like garbage and then they love you. I might make a video.

 

[JDS]

I’ve been reading you gotta treat a woman like garbage and then they love you. I might make a video.

That’s if your hung like a horse, good looking & have money.

 

[Tanko]

I’ve been reading you gotta treat a woman like garbage and then they love you. I might make a video.

Oh s#it.... I'm sure this will work out well for you JJ.

You have to stop watching that guy on youtube putting out videos about dating Filipino women.

 

[maltedhopsfrenzy]

I’ve been reading you gotta treat a woman like garbage and then they love you. I might make a video.

You should test that theory - the next woman you see, walk right up to her confidently, get right in her face and say:

 

[JDS]

You should test that theory - the next woman you see, walk right up to her confidently, get right in her face and say:

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Some women would absolutely love that from “certain men”.

 

[Tanko]

Some women would absolutely love that from “certain men”.

Brad Pitt
George Clooney
Chris Hemsworth
David Beckham
....


I don't see JJ's name on the list.

 

[JDS]

That’s if your hung like a horse, good looking & have money.

I almost forgot the most important trait to have is being “tall”.