How do you handle the woman playing hard to get?

[jjgold]

Tried every strategy in the world just doesn’t work

 

[str]

Kill them with kindness JJ.

Treat them like you would want to be treated.

Aretha wrote a song about it. R E S P E C T.

 

[BMR Genie]

The more pushy you become, the more the woman will distance herself from you.

@MinnesotaFats can teach you how to be a player. But as STR mentioned, it's better to kill them with kindness.

 

[JDS]

Tried every strategy in the world just doesn’t work

If you come across like you don’t need sex from them at all, especially the real attractive ones. Well then you have them right where you want them. In order for this to work they have to be physically attracted to you though or you are just wasting your time.

 

[edawg]

Just do what comes natural which is to ignore and move on to the next one.

 

[maltedhopsfrenzy]

First, offer her a cold beverage…..



Then, maybe show off the guns…..



If all that fails - throw money around…..

 

[samsncharge99]

If you come across like you don’t need sex from them at all, especially the real attractive ones. Well then you have them right where you want them. In order for this to work they have to be physically attracted to you though or you are just wasting your time.

the more attention you give, the less they give back

if they want you, they will make a move or communicate or reach out. If you are always making the first move, she's not into you

 

[JDS]

the more attention you give, the less they give back

if they want you, they will make a move or communicate or reach out. If you are always making the first move, she's not into you

Spoken by an experienced & smart man currently active in the dating scene.

 

[BobbyFK]

the more attention you give, the less they give back

if they want you, they will make a move or communicate or reach out. If you are always making the first move, she's not into you

Sammy's the MVP of this. Take his advice here JJ

 

[BMR Genie]

the more attention you give, the less they give back

if they want you, they will make a move or communicate or reach out. If you are always making the first move, she's not into you

Yap.. The "spark" is gone quickly when you give too much attention. Women love to chase men that doesn't give them much attention.

 

[Tanko]

JJ, In addition to the items mentioned by others, do you have a good sense of humor?
Being funny and making women laugh will let you score a hotter chick than you deserve every time.

 

[BMR Ivy]

Tried every strategy in the world just doesn’t work

If nothing works, maybe she’s just not interested

 

[samsncharge99]

Spoken by an experienced & smart man currently active in the dating scene.

believe me, i sadly have to tell myself the very statement every night when i drink and start firing away shots.

i often type them out and delete knowing i look desperate.

dating world sucks. Honestly political views aside, but that is a major issue

I see so many times.....if you voted for Trump don't swipe me. Or must support LTG, idk all the letters, but the trans bull shit

the media has pushed single white woman so far left, they are programmed wrong. No family futures or kids. Thinking being alone for ever is the way to go

or the other extreme or girls trying to sell their snapchat or onlyfans and bull shit

 

[BMR Genie]

Yap.. The "spark" is gone quickly when you give too much attention. Women love to chase men that doesn't give them much attention.

Just to add, this is one of the reason why a lot of women falls victim to a player.

A player will bait her, give her all the attention, and then suddenly tell the girl that he doesn't want commitment and then move on.. This kind of attention that women will gonna chase even strongly.

 

[maltedhopsfrenzy]

JJ, In addition to the items mentioned by others, do you have a good sense of humor?
Being funny and making women laugh will let you score a hotter chick than you deserve every time.

 

[badbull]

Sometimes the best strategy is no strategy just be yourself and know when to walk away

 

[BigJay]

Tried every strategy in the world just doesn’t work

Ask the expert @MinnesotaFats

 

[edawg]

believe me, i sadly have to tell myself the very statement every night when i drink and start firing away shots.

i often type them out and delete knowing i look desperate.

dating world sucks. Honestly political views aside, but that is a major issue

I see so many times.....if you voted for Trump don't swipe me. Or must support LTG, idk all the letters, but the trans bull shit

the media has pushed single white woman so far left, they are programmed wrong. No family futures or kids. Thinking being alone for ever is the way to go

or the other extreme or girls trying to sell their snapchat or onlyfans and bull shit

Be your genuine self no matter what. Authenticity is one of the most attractive traits a human can have.

 

[samsncharge99]

believe me, i sadly have to tell myself the very statement every night when i drink and start firing away shots.

i often type them out and delete knowing i look desperate.

dating world sucks. Honestly political views aside, but that is a major issue

I see so many times.....if you voted for Trump don't swipe me. Or must support LTG, idk all the letters, but the trans bull shit

the media has pushed single white woman so far left, they are programmed wrong. No family futures or kids. Thinking being alone for ever is the way to go

or the other extreme or girls trying to sell their snapchat or onlyfans and bull shit

i know i need to go to the bars by myself and just try to make conversation....but then you have groups of girls. And what I am supposed to do, go to a group of 3-4-5 and try to start conversation. Someone will take their phone out, start recording, or BF appears out of nowhere. Or the gernande in the group plays defense to box out a conversation from happening

i have dance abilities, but it's not 2008 where you just grind up on someone.

I don't fear rejection, i'm in sales, it's in my blood. Public embarassment I do fear. And then if you are just sitting at the bar by yourself you look like a loser. It's a lose lose lose scneario all around

i fukking hate it. and the words appearing don't do justice. i can't stand the current dating pool. it's so challenging.

especially social media and the false expectation that everyone is supposed to be a gazillionaire. And then if you are girls cheat b/c they are bored or want more out of the guy. it's never enough

end rant

 

[Tanko]

I'm pretty sure most people either meet the opposite sex via common friends or dating apps these days. JJ, you need to find someone on an app since I'm not sure your friends are willing to set you up with someone.

That first meet up with her is important to "hit it off". Don't be too aggressive. Let her do the talking. Just ask questions about her life, job, friends, etc... Women love to talk. If you have some witty banter, it can lead to a 2nd date.