For the love of god dont go to a skanky 1 star hotel.
*Unless she invites u to her private room in a 3* hotel or above.
but theres more risk here still vs. ur place. & then some1 knocks on the door.
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If ur very new to this, I'd say get a vetted one from eroticmonkey(EM)
give wrong address first, play dumb after- from a view u can see if she was not followed etc.
make sure there r cameras in ur place.
make sure to ask if they take cashapp/venmo & that u will PAY AFTER. 0 UPFRONT. (regardless)
if not, have cash, dont say anything about it. they will 100% ask pay first.
if so, show cash, but hide it in a safe/ put inside a drawer thats not easily accessible.
(discreetly separate cash to 2 points of access)
IF not satisfied/ tries to leave be4 agreed time. give only 1 part of cash.
IF satisfied. - give both. or w/e
To save the hassle.
You tell them upfront upon meeting, something like - If u really put in the effort,
You will tip them extra & give a good review. That way,, atleast they'll try...
Be ready for surprises.
Learn from my mistakes.
Interesting STAT :
U r more likely to contract STDs from a 1 night stand with a stranger from a bar,
than an escort/ hooker.