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Sammy How Does It Feel To Be A Winner?

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Terrible idea Bobby. Very low % of quality women on there. Besides average looking women on a dating app get 100 plus messages a month. So that makes those average looking women feel not so average.
 

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yea tinder is a joke, i'm way better in person than an app

plus with attention spans no one looks at more than the profile pic, in 1/2 second you are already swiping onto the next person. I don't actually look at profiles unless i match

waste overall, bumble, hinge, tinder, all the same

they were great 10 years ago, i Had some fun, nowadays, garbage
 

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yea tinder is a joke, i'm way better in person than an app

plus with attention spans no one looks at more than the profile pic, in 1/2 second you are already swiping onto the next person. I don't actually look at profiles unless i match

waste overall, bumble, hinge, tinder, all the same

they were great 10 years ago, i Had some fun, nowadays, garbage
Agreed, we both lived had fun & then learned.
 

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yea tinder is a joke, i'm way better in person than an app

plus with attention spans no one looks at more than the profile pic, in 1/2 second you are already swiping onto the next person. I don't actually look at profiles unless i match

waste overall, bumble, hinge, tinder, all the same

they were great 10 years ago, i Had some fun, nowadays, garbage
This kid is smart!!!
 

JDS

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Banged a nice single mom when I was in college through Tinder. All it was good for
They serve a purpose, main point is very low chance to find something meaningful & lasting on there.
 

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my other issue is my body type compared to what is typically available online
I would assume women like a skinny dude over a sloppy overweight guy.
 

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Terrible idea Bobby. Very low % of quality women on there. Besides average looking women on a dating app get 100 plus messages a month. So that makes those average looking women feel not so average.
Dating apps impossible

Too many men to women
my other issue is my body type compared to what is typically available online


Yes impossible for an average man.

I've tried em all , a man has to send a 100+ msgs, most of which wont get read. and MAYBE 1 will reply.

I've gone on 2 dates in the last 10 yrs through online alone. She was OK, 6/10 , i prefer some chunk to their body , but not clinically obese, which is what 90% of the profiles are.

1 in a thousand match , maybe there is a chance of a real relationship/marriage, which does happen.

They're mostly cheaters/ looking for flings.
A Good looking, well-off woman will generally not be looking online for a serious relationship.
She will be flocked by men IRL, and would simply have to choose.


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That being said, i'm no relationship expert.

Sammy, u have the looks, the job, the $ and ur own place i'm assuming. which checks all green flags for a man.

Try Meetup !, going for activities of ur choice to meet ppl IRL.
Or bars, i suppose, but not recommended.
 

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You got a remember now these girls are all on social media so there’s people shooting into them all over the United States

If they see a guy with cash they will be interested , they never work out buy the common man has no chance that’s my point nowadays


I guess belong in a different church group might have a chance or any other social activities but not online
 

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Yes impossible for an average man.

I've tried em all , a man has to send a 100+ msgs, most of which wont get read. and MAYBE 1 will reply.

I've gone on 2 dates in the last 10 yrs through online alone. She was OK, 6/10 , i prefer some chunk to their body , but not clinically obese, which is what 90% of the profiles are.

1 in a thousand match , maybe there is a chance of a real relationship/marriage, which does happen.

They're mostly cheaters/ looking for flings.
A Good looking, well-off woman will generally not be looking online for a serious relationship.
She will be flocked by men IRL, and would simply have to choose.

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That being said, i'm no relationship expert.

Sammy, u have the looks, the job, the $ and ur own place i'm assuming. which checks all green flags for a man.

Try Meetup !, going for activities of ur choice to meet ppl IRL.
Or bars, i suppose, but not recommended.
Pete pretty much knows what he’s talking about here. I respect the honest perspective regarding online dating. I will say I’ve had some more success than you on there the last 7 years since my divorce. Probably met around 40 women & smashed like 15 during my online dating tenure. Just to put this into some perspective @flyingillini the real deal pimp of Deacons smashed like 15 new broads each month in his prime or probably more. Not now though he has slowed down some old age catching up to a pimp.
 
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