Even though this might seem personal, I don't you from shinola, so don't take it personally.
But I do know that
@patrickbateman is BMR's premier gay themed thread starter.
Given his negative posts about pillow biters the only question left to ask
@patrickbateman is "when are you going to come out?"
I think if there's a gay poster here at BMR, the OP must be the leading candidate.