I pay for a teenage boy ( 15 now ) to play hockey and soccer. A lady I worked with for years , lost her husband to cancer. She is a single mom , working long hours to keep it all afloat. We became work friends and she mentioned that her son wanted to play sports but she just didn't have the money for it. I've been paying for him for 5 years now and never mentioned it to my wife. There's nothing going on between us but I was worried she would think otherwise so I keep it a secret