For most people, the size of one's shaft fits into one of two binaries: big or small. There are no nuances or gray areas; it's either sizable or not. Peckers, however, are more complex than that. Like all body parts, the male genitalia comes in all shapes and sizes, and genetics from both parents play a role in determining how impressive your shaft will be.
The average penis girth or circumference is 4.59 inches when erect and 3.67 inches when flaccid. So who cares if you don't have a 9-inch shaft when you can equate its thickness to a beer can.
Curved up, down, left or right, a slight bend in your willy is perfectly normal.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder so referring to your penis as pretty is subjective. That said, if you believe your shaft is exceptionally beautiful or handsome, its captivating appearance may impress more than your length.
As your shaft becomes erect, veins that were once unseen when flaccid become visible when hard. Sharing your veiny status could imply how rock-hard you get when aroused, and that may impress someone wanting to have fun with your third leg.
At the end of the day , all BMR posters that are men have shafts, we like to get erect , we enjoy teasing , tickling, pulling , yanking , we enjoy pre release as well as a full powerful shotgun release. There is no shame in talking about sexual fantasies and desires. I have exchanged shaft pics as well as video calls over the years with posters. There is really no harm. I can say that I have actually seen
@jjgold shaft in Montreal when he was changing his clothes after his massage. I’ve seen
@DiggityDaggityDo left testicle by accident on Zoom and I saw a tiny bit of the shaft. I have seen
@BobbyFK shaft but he will deny it but probably doesn’t remember how.
@Brock Landers has a huge bulge that I noticed but actually have never seen it.
There have been a few others too over the years. We could have a shaft thread in the basement comparing posters etc.