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flyingillini

flyingillini

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I can’t believe the average size is 4.5. How come the guys here say they’re all like seven and eight they gotta be lying illini


My vein structure is not bad, but my girth is very thin. That’s a terrible combination to be 2 1/2 inches and thin.


There are products if you were gonna have sex ahead of time you could put this rubber thing that looks like a cock extension over yours. They use some sort of suction. It’s safe you just gotta get pre-fitted for it.


Color matching is also critical. You can’t have like me with a black extension that would be very detectable so they have to have a perfect color match. That’s why you’re paying about 4700.

I would get just a 5 inch extension that would get me to 7.7 Ish then I could be a stud

Rubber cocks of course they’re temporary so you just take it off when you’re done

The cum does come out of the extension
Let’s talk about Pre release JJ. The amount produced varies widely among individuals, ranging from a few drops to up to 5 milliliters (about a teaspoon). Some men may not produce any at all. Its release is involuntary and generally goes unnoticed by the man.
 

flyingillini

flyingillini

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All I want to know is....how not to cum too quickly
To help stop ejaculating quickly, you can
use a combination of behavioral techniques, pelvic floor exercises, and products that reduce sensitivity. Open communication with a partner is also important for finding what works best.


Behavioral Techniques
These techniques help you gain awareness and control over your arousal levels:
  • Start-Stop Method (Edging): During sexual activity or masturbation, continue stimulation until you feel you are very close to orgasm (the "point of no return"). Then, stop all stimulation and wait for the intense feeling to subside. Once your arousal lessens, start stimulation again. Repeat this cycle several times before allowing yourself to ejaculate.
  • Squeeze Technique: Similar to the start-stop method, stimulate the penis until you are near ejaculation. Then, you or your partner should apply firm pressure to the head of the penis where it joins the shaft for about 30 seconds until the urge to ejaculate passes. Release the pressure and wait a moment before resuming sexual activity. Repeat as needed.
  • Masturbating Before Sex: Masturbating an hour or two before sex can take advantage of the body's natural refractory period (the time it takes to be ready for another erection and ejaculation), which may help you last longer during partnered sex.
  • Extended Foreplay and Position Changes:Spending more time on foreplay and less on penetration can reduce pressure and improve satisfaction for both partners. Experimenting with different sexual positions (e.g., partner on top) can also help reduce the intensity of stimulation.
  • Mindfulness and Deep Breathing: Focus on the present moment and the sensations in your body rather than worrying about performance. Deep, slow breaths when you feel close to orgasm can help calm your body and delay climax.


Exercises
  • Kegel Exercises (Pelvic Floor Exercises):Strengthening the pelvic floor muscles can improve your control over ejaculation.
    • How to do them: To find the correct muscles, try stopping the flow of urine midstream. Once identified, contract these muscles, hold for three to five seconds, then relax for the same amount of time.
    • Frequency: Aim for three sets of 10 repetitions daily, in different positions (lying down, sitting, or standing).


Products and Medical Options
  • Thicker or Desensitizing Condoms: Using a thicker condom or one that contains a numbing agent (like benzocaine) can help reduce sensitivity and delay ejaculation.
  • Topical Numbing Agents: Over-the-counter creams, gels, or sprays containing a local anesthetic (like lidocaine) can be applied to the penis 10-15 minutes before sex to reduce sensation. Be sure to wipe off excess product to avoid numbing your partner.
  • Counseling/Therapy: Performance anxiety, stress, or relationship issues can contribute to premature ejaculation. Speaking with a sex therapist or counselor can help address these underlying psychological factors.
  • Medication: If self-help methods are not effective, a healthcare provider might prescribe off-label oral medications, such as certain antidepressants (SSRIs) that have a side effect of delayed orgasm, or other medications.

It may take time and practice to find the right solution or combination of solutions. If the issue is persistent or causes significant distress, consulting with a healthcare professional (such as a urologist or sex therapist) is recommended to rule out any underlying medical conditions.
 

BobbyFK

BobbyFK

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For most people, the size of one's shaft fits into one of two binaries: big or small. There are no nuances or gray areas; it's either sizable or not. Peckers, however, are more complex than that. Like all body parts, the male genitalia comes in all shapes and sizes, and genetics from both parents play a role in determining how impressive your shaft will be.

The average penis girth or circumference is 4.59 inches when erect and 3.67 inches when flaccid. So who cares if you don't have a 9-inch shaft when you can equate its thickness to a beer can.

Curved up, down, left or right, a slight bend in your willy is perfectly normal.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder so referring to your penis as pretty is subjective. That said, if you believe your shaft is exceptionally beautiful or handsome, its captivating appearance may impress more than your length.

As your shaft becomes erect, veins that were once unseen when flaccid become visible when hard. Sharing your veiny status could imply how rock-hard you get when aroused, and that may impress someone wanting to have fun with your third leg.

At the end of the day , all BMR posters that are men have shafts, we like to get erect , we enjoy teasing , tickling, pulling , yanking , we enjoy pre release as well as a full powerful shotgun release. There is no shame in talking about sexual fantasies and desires. I have exchanged shaft pics as well as video calls over the years with posters. There is really no harm. I can say that I have actually seen @jjgold shaft in Montreal when he was changing his clothes after his massage. I’ve seen @DiggityDaggityDo left testicle by accident on Zoom and I saw a tiny bit of the shaft. I have seen @BobbyFK shaft but he will deny it but probably doesn’t remember how. @Brock Landers has a huge bulge that I noticed but actually have never seen it.

There have been a few others too over the years. We could have a shaft thread in the basement comparing posters etc.
How the hell did you see mine???
 

JDS

JDS

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jamesy2422

jamesy2422

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I can’t believe the average size is 4.5. How come the guys here say they’re all like seven and eight they gotta be lying illini


My vein structure is not bad, but my girth is very thin. That’s a terrible combination to be 2 1/2 inches and thin.


There are products if you were gonna have sex ahead of time you could put this rubber thing that looks like a cock extension over yours. They use some sort of suction. It’s safe you just gotta get pre-fitted for it.


Color matching is also critical. You can’t have like me with a black extension that would be very detectable so they have to have a perfect color match. That’s why you’re paying about 4700.

I would get just a 5 inch extension that would get me to 7.7 Ish then I could be a stud

Rubber cocks of course they’re temporary so you just take it off when you’re done

The cum does come out of the extension
you have to be trolling at this point. holy shit. who cares.

the only thing i will say is most men lie about size. anyone online is usually 7 or 8 inches. women say that to me all the time.
 
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