Serious Question for Genie (involves Rudy)

[MarkyMark]

Genie, just how bad did you ghost Rudy to get him so worked up? Did he pull a Brett Favre and text some unsolicited crotch shots?

 

[BMR Genie]

LOL! Good to see you around MM.

I barely know Rudy and right now no plans of knowing him at all. I did not ghosted him, we are not a friend nor definitely not a lover.

 

[MarkyMark]

Love that you threw in definitely on that closing sentence. Here’s to hoping that his next move is not writing a 1000 page manifesto.

 

[pokerintherear]

genie is all class rudy is just an ass

 

[RudyRuder]

i was paid $750/mo to talk to you scumbags

i gave away 100 to Tuesday

didnt even attempt at another month

dont want it this month


yea, delete my post...thats the truth

 

[RudyRuder]

also, hi lou

 

[MarkyMark]

i was paid $750/mo to talk to you scumbags

i gave away 100 to Tuesday

didnt even attempt at another month

dont want it this month


yea, delete my post...thats the truth

If that’s true, it sounds like money wasted.

How about the $1300 challenge?

 

[BobbyFK]

i was paid $750/mo to talk to you scumbags

i gave away 100 to Tuesday

didnt even attempt at another month

dont want it this month


yea, delete my post...thats the truth

Who paid you?

 

[RudyRuder]

Who paid you?

your mother

 

[RudyRuder]

i sit here daily and post

know every goddamn poster here


then im attacked by mods/paid posters/scammers that were caught


i have 1 infraction already


didnt enikk bet me that i wasnt banned the other day?


ill prove him wrong as well


just like i made genie look like a fukkin idiot

 

[MarkyMark]

This clown won’t post up $1300 @Donnie D

 

[pokerintherear]

rudy u are a mess

 

[BMR Genie]

Love that you threw in definitely on that closing sentence. Here’s to hoping that his next move is not writing a 1000 page manifesto.

Yeah, better to be clear. Though I really hope he has a personal love life right now. He badly need the TLC.

 

[lemartinsports]

Rudy with all respect, if you hate everyone so much here and how the forum is run then why are you still here? You keep asking to get banned, why not just stop coming here? You said it yourself in another thread that you love forums and will go to others. I’ve been catching up on the drama, and again respectfully, genie does not deserve this treatment.

I’m the type of person that really tries to understand everyone individually, and i do understand your frustration Rudy. But there are better ways of handling these things, in my opinion. You know i enjoy interacting with you on a daily so i hope there are no hard feelings. Just want to see us all ok

 

[Enikk]

Rudy with all respect, if you hate everyone so much here and how the forum is run then why are you still here? You keep asking to get banned, why not just stop coming here? You said it yourself in another thread that you love forums and will go to others. I’ve been catching up on the drama, and again respectfully, genie does not deserve this treatment.

I’m the type of person that really tries to understand everyone individually, and i do understand your frustration Rudy. But there are better ways of handling these things, in my opinion. You know i enjoy interacting with you on a daily so i hope there are no hard feelings. Just want to see us all ok

It really is sad. He had a loving forgiving community that he has had no where else on these forums. It sounds like the owners here had his back as well and were giving him an opportunity and shot at his dream.

With info Rudy revealed, a lot of his posts/threads now make sense. Those "I want Mod powers" threads and his treatment of Genie, myself, CK, or anyone in his mind who he thought worked for BMR or was a potential threat to him, he was going to stab them in the back and take them out right away. Nothing was ever going to be enough for him until he was running the place and it was running how he wanted it to be.

Ask anyone in healthcare who the most challenging Patients are and they will immediately answer you by saying "Border-line Personality disorder" than they will take a deep breath. The struggle is real and lots of similarities here. Unfortunately, this is one that doesn't have a quick fix and is a lifetime struggle.

The 9 symptoms of BPD​

1. Fear of abandonment. People with BPD are often terrified of being abandoned or left alone. Even something as innocuous as a loved one arriving home late from work or going away for the weekend may trigger intense fear. This can prompt frantic efforts to keep the other person close. You may beg, cling, start fights, track your loved one’s movements, or even physically block the person from leaving. Unfortunately, this behavior tends to have the opposite effect—driving others away.
2. Unstable relationships. People with BPD tend to have relationships that are intense and short-lived. You may fall in love quickly, believing that each new person is the one who will make you feel whole, only to be quickly disappointed. Your relationships either seem perfect or horrible, without any middle ground. Your lovers, friends, or family members may feel like they have emotional whiplash as a result of your rapid swings from idealization to devaluation, anger, and hate.
3. Unclear or shifting self-image. When you have BPD, your sense of self is typically unstable. Sometimes you may feel good about yourself, but other times you hate yourself, or even view yourself as evil. You probably don’t have a clear idea of who you are or what you want in life. As a result, you may frequently change jobs, friends, lovers, religion, values, goals, or even sexual identity.
4. Impulsive, self-destructive behaviors. If you have BPD, you may engage in harmful, sensation-seeking behaviors, especially when you’re upset. You may impulsively spend money you can’t afford, binge eat, drive recklessly, shoplift, engage in risky sex, or overdo it with drugs or alcohol. These risky behaviors may help you feel better in the moment, but they hurt you and those around you over the long-term.
5. Self-harm. Suicidal behavior and deliberate self-harm is common in people with BPD. Suicidal behavior includes thinking about suicide, making suicidal gestures or threats, or actually carrying out a suicide attempt. Self-harm encompasses all other attempts to hurt yourself without suicidal intent. Common forms of self-harm include cutting and burning.
6. Extreme emotional swings. Unstable emotions and moods are common with BPD. One moment, you may feel happy, and the next, despondent. Little things that other people brush off can send you into an emotional tailspin. These mood swings are intense, but they tend to pass fairly quickly (unlike the emotional swings of depression or bipolar disorder), usually lasting just a few minutes or hours.
7. Chronic feelings of emptiness. People with BPD often talk about feeling empty, as if there’s a hole or a void inside them. At the extreme, you may feel as if you’re “nothing” or “nobody.” This feeling is uncomfortable, so you may try to fill the void with things like drugs, food, or sex. But nothing feels truly satisfying.
8. Explosive anger. If you have BPD, you may struggle with intense anger and a short temper. You may also have trouble controlling yourself once the fuse is lit—yelling, throwing things, or becoming completely consumed by rage. It’s important to note that this anger isn’t always directed outwards. You may spend a lot of time feeling angry at yourself.
9. Feeling suspicious or out of touch with reality. People with BPD often struggle with paranoia or suspicious thoughts about others’ motives. When under stress, you may even lose touch with reality—an experience known as dissociation. You may feel foggy, spaced out, or as if you’re outside your own body.

 

[BMR Genie]

It really is sad. He had a loving forgiving community that he has had no where else on these forums. It sounds like the owners here had his back as well and were giving him an opportunity and shot at his dream.

With info Rudy revealed, a lot of his posts/threads now make sense. Those "I want Mod powers" threads and his treatment of Genie, myself, CK, or anyone in his mind who he thought worked for BMR or was a potential threat to him, he was going to stab them in the back and take them out right away. Nothing was ever going to be enough for him until he was running the place and it was running how he wanted it to be.

Ask anyone in healthcare who the most challenging Patients are and they will immediately answer you by saying "Border-line Personality disorder" than they will take a deep breath. The struggle is real and lots of similarities here. Unfortunately, this is one that doesn't have a quick fix and is a lifetime struggle.

The 9 symptoms of BPD​

1. Fear of abandonment. People with BPD are often terrified of being abandoned or left alone. Even something as innocuous as a loved one arriving home late from work or going away for the weekend may trigger intense fear. This can prompt frantic efforts to keep the other person close. You may beg, cling, start fights, track your loved one’s movements, or even physically block the person from leaving. Unfortunately, this behavior tends to have the opposite effect—driving others away.
2. Unstable relationships. People with BPD tend to have relationships that are intense and short-lived. You may fall in love quickly, believing that each new person is the one who will make you feel whole, only to be quickly disappointed. Your relationships either seem perfect or horrible, without any middle ground. Your lovers, friends, or family members may feel like they have emotional whiplash as a result of your rapid swings from idealization to devaluation, anger, and hate.
3. Unclear or shifting self-image. When you have BPD, your sense of self is typically unstable. Sometimes you may feel good about yourself, but other times you hate yourself, or even view yourself as evil. You probably don’t have a clear idea of who you are or what you want in life. As a result, you may frequently change jobs, friends, lovers, religion, values, goals, or even sexual identity.
4. Impulsive, self-destructive behaviors. If you have BPD, you may engage in harmful, sensation-seeking behaviors, especially when you’re upset. You may impulsively spend money you can’t afford, binge eat, drive recklessly, shoplift, engage in risky sex, or overdo it with drugs or alcohol. These risky behaviors may help you feel better in the moment, but they hurt you and those around you over the long-term.
5. Self-harm. Suicidal behavior and deliberate self-harm is common in people with BPD. Suicidal behavior includes thinking about suicide, making suicidal gestures or threats, or actually carrying out a suicide attempt. Self-harm encompasses all other attempts to hurt yourself without suicidal intent. Common forms of self-harm include cutting and burning.
6. Extreme emotional swings. Unstable emotions and moods are common with BPD. One moment, you may feel happy, and the next, despondent. Little things that other people brush off can send you into an emotional tailspin. These mood swings are intense, but they tend to pass fairly quickly (unlike the emotional swings of depression or bipolar disorder), usually lasting just a few minutes or hours.
7. Chronic feelings of emptiness. People with BPD often talk about feeling empty, as if there’s a hole or a void inside them. At the extreme, you may feel as if you’re “nothing” or “nobody.” This feeling is uncomfortable, so you may try to fill the void with things like drugs, food, or sex. But nothing feels truly satisfying.
8. Explosive anger. If you have BPD, you may struggle with intense anger and a short temper. You may also have trouble controlling yourself once the fuse is lit—yelling, throwing things, or becoming completely consumed by rage. It’s important to note that this anger isn’t always directed outwards. You may spend a lot of time feeling angry at yourself.
9. Feeling suspicious or out of touch with reality. People with BPD often struggle with paranoia or suspicious thoughts about others’ motives. When under stress, you may even lose touch with reality—an experience known as dissociation. You may feel foggy, spaced out, or as if you’re outside your own body.

I just encountered this term during JD/AH trial when Dr Shannon Curry testify in court and diagnosed Heard with borderline personality disorder and histrionic personality disorder.

 

[BobbyFK]

 

[Enikk]

I just encountered this term during JD/AH trial when Dr Shannon Curry testify in court and diagnosed Heard with borderline personality disorder and histrionic personality disorder.

Yes, Amber has it as well. They are masters at manipulating. Have to give Amber credit. She not only made Johnny fall in love with her but also the richest man in the World and other actors like Franco. Mad skills.

I have had severe cases of Patients that were not getting enough attention so they go to there room and smash their head into a wall/toilet you name it. Fake convolutions/heart attacks. They know they will get attention this way because you have to respond.