Fuk, man. I know people bullshit on the forums. This is no joke.
Don't give up hope. Medicine should be viewed as an INEXACT SCIENCE. If in doubt, you should always look for a 2nd opinion.
Truth is that Medicine is like any other business. They have to see other patients to keep the $$-train comin in. Medical opinions can vary quite a bit.
Do you get any movement in that arm? Any prospects for Physical Therapy?
And when I say Physical Therapy, not just talking it away. I'm saying treating it every day, just like it's a job. Think about it, man, Don't give up Hope.