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Getting married Saturday - any advice?

JDS

JDS

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Any wise wisdom to share? How do you keep your marriage going?
Don’t have children right away, enjoy each other 1st for a while.
 

djefferis

djefferis

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Congratulations

As to how to keep it going - it’s kind of like asking how do you go in living to me - there’s not a lot to think about - you just do it.

Marrriage is no different than any other relationship you will have throughout your life - as long as it remains mutually beneficial - you adjust and make
It work. Nothing is “maintenance free” - but if you maintain it - it takes a lot less work.

Don’t make yourself miserable trying to make things work - and communicate. If your unhappy - it’s unlikely anyone else is happy and communicating can solve many of these problems.

Oh and don’t go seeking the answer to the deepest questions of life on BMR. Most of the posters here barely can tie their own damn shoes. Expecting them to give you anything more than a gambling pick that has a 43% change of winning or the best place to get a cheap meal is asking a lot of this crowd.
 

BigJay

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